A different way to think about this issue is this.
A conditional statement "If A then B" is OBVIOUSLY true whenever A and B are both true.
A conditional statement "If A then B" is OBVIOUSLY false whenever A is true and B is false.
But what do we say when A is false. In ordinary speech, we may say that "If A then B" is false if A is false. In more sophisticated speech, we say that if "A then B" is meaningless when A is false. But the logicians want everything to be true or false. Now how would I prove "If A then B" to be false? The statement says NOTHING about what happens when A is false. Consequently, nothing can prove it to be untrue when A is false. But that means that the statement is not false. By logical definition then, the statement is true.
An analogy is this. In American law, a jury must render a verdict of guilty or not guilty. In Scottish law, a jury can render three verdicts, guilty, not guilty, or not proven. Logic has decided that it is more useful to define "true" and "false" as exhaustive and mutually exclusive possiblities. If I say "If I had been Prime Minister of England in 1938, there would have been no Second World War", you cannot prove that I am lying so the logicians say I must be telling the truth. The point I am making is that the truth or falsity of conditional statements when the antecedent (A in our example) is false is a matter of definition. The implied definitions of ordinary discourse are not the same as the definitions of logic and mathematics. I was not Prime Minister in 1938 (in fact I was not even alive). So some people might say that the statement about my preventing war is a lie, but most people on reflection would say that the statement is just silly. Ordinary people, like the law of Scotland, normally think of three options, true, false, and meaningless. Logic, like American law, thinks about two options, and meaningless gets included with true.
You can't argue against definitions. All you can do is understand that different definitions lead to different results. At least in the realm of mathematics and logic, the experts have decided that it is most useful to have truth and falsity form a strict dichotomy. In most situations in real life, I personally think it is more useful to add the third category of meaningless to true and false. To remember the implications of the definitions in logic, both pka and soroban have given you very succinct explanations of what those implications are.