We don't change the maps by scaling countries. We project a 3d globe onto a 2d map. There are many ways to do it. E.g. put a point light source in the center of the globe and trace the resulting shadow of each country on a 2d surface to get a map. If you wrap the 2d surface around the equator countries close to the poles will increase in size. How can it be? We project each point on the globe onto the corresponding point on the map. Same infinite number of points should result in the same area, according to your approach.